Sometimes you gots to be sneaky.
Sometimes you gots to be quiet and gentle.
Sometimes you gots to blend into the background and make your appearance slowly and delicately.
That way, you’re noticed slowly and on the others’ terms.
It’s always good to integrate yourself with others on their terms, not your terms.
Not at first.
Then, once accepted, you can find out if your terms are acceptable.
Remember to keep your term negotiable. Often it’s better to merge systems, to synthesize, to let the whole become greater than the sum of its parts.